MEN A JOB OPPORTUNITY???

Hi guys!!! In my last post I talked about women having standard and laying their requirement,  most important I stated that making ur requirements known to a man should not give you license for you to run down your list of demands!!!
       Men a job opportunity??  answer is..NO!!! This is a relationship Ladies and not a job where u are expecting to be paid!! But that doesn't mean he shouldn't take care of you. We should understand that while  men appreciate it when women let them know up front what they require in a relationship, I believe women sometimes, needs to step back every once in while and let the man show you what his made of...you know ,prove that his worthy of your time.  I mean its nice that you like your man to take you out at least twice a week,and that you expect a gift doing Valentine day, you expect him to buy you  expensive gifts like iPhone on your birthday. But how exactly do you fine out how creative ,romantic, or giving a man is if you tip him on how to make you happy,without requiring him to figure some of this out on his own? Know this:if you tell a man you like expensive phone for birthday or designer's clothes and bags as gifts that's exactly what he will give u nothing less and most importantly nothing more. You will be happy at first, but give it few months into the relationship, he will stop doing what you told him you like because he feels he has already gotten what he wanted.
      Many ladies however will  think because he stopped, he has changed. Many will tell their close pals they don't know what happened "he used to do everything I liked" instead of telling him how you like IPhone rather tell him u like phones with  good quality cameras because you enjoy taking selfies ,that you like your pictures bring Bright that's honest and also better you indirectly told him the type of phone you want, definitely he knows  that any any phone with good and quality camera will be expensive unless he asked u to tell him the phone  you prefer. Definitely if you let  him  buy the one in his mind, he will surprise u many men are like that. I have seen several cases where men gives expensive gifts to women without even them requesting or telling them.
      If he doesn't show you that his willing to figure out how to put a smile on your face then you will be in the position to decide if his capable of giving you want you need and at least some of what you want.